Signature Strengths
Writing #1
There are many things that make people, “good” people in my eyes. I think honesty is one of the most important things that I look at. I am going to have a hard time getting along with someone that is constantly lying and making things up. Everyone should be honest to themselves, and the people around them. Being kind-hearted is important. Trying not to hurt other people, and doing what you think is right. It is important that people have their own original ideas about the world. Not everyone is going to agree about everything, and you as a person won’t truly agree with everything someone else believes. I think its important that people understand that and say what they really believe, instead of trying to conform with things they don’t really believe in.
Writing #2
I think that everyday that I say something to someone, or think about something that definitely is against the grain. For example, I don’t believe in a “higher power”, and a lot of times when someone asks me and I tell them I don’t, they’re suprised. I was raised as a Christian, we never went to church but I did pray daily and thank god. I don’t know exactly when I stopped believing, but I just thought about everything going on in the world, and if there was an all-loving being I couldn’t understand how he could let everything in the world happen the way it does. I just realized that I don’t have to believe in a god, and I could have my own beliefs. It made me think about a lot of things differently realizing that I didn’t have to agree with what everyone else thought.
Writing #3
Perspective (wisdom)
Although you may not think of yourself as wise, your friends hold this view of you. They value your perspective on matters and turn to you for advice. You have a way of looking at the world that makes sense to others and to yourself.
I think this really fits me. Whenever my friends have a problem with someone, or put into an awkward situation they ask me what they should do. My friends
often ask me how something works and a lot of the times I have the answer.
Modesty and humility
You do not seek the spotlight, preferring to let your accomplishments speak for themselves. You do not regard yourself as special, and others recognize and value your modesty.
This fits as well. While my friends do usually ask me for advice, I don’t think I come off as arrogant when I tell them what I would do. I just think about what happened, and why things happened the way they did, then tell them how I would handle the situation. I don’t tell them what to do if they don’t ask for advice.
Judgment, critical thinking, and open-mindedness
Thinking things through and examining them from all sides are important aspects of who you are. You do not jump to conclusions, and you rely only on solid evidence to make your decisions. You are able to change your mind.
Another one that is definitely true. If theres ever a problem between two people I know I usually try and get both sides of the story before I make up my mind about who was in the wrong. I don’t assume that the first person I talk to was completely right. Often when I read something in a history book or online in an article, I wonder about what the other country’s textbooks say. I also think its dumb that we read so much about the German Concentration camps, but we completely skim over the American Concentration camps that housed the Japanese.
Social intelligence
You are aware of the motives and feelings of other people. You know what to do to fit in to different social situations, and you know what to do to put others at ease.
I agree with this one as well. Whenever their are arguements I’m always the peacemaker. I can see why somebody might be mad over something, or why someone could take something the wrong way, but I also know that the majority of the time the statement was light-hearted and not meant as an insult. When someone talks to me about a problem I can understand why they’re angry, but I can always make them see that they are over-reacting over something.
Self-control and self-regulation
You self-consciously regulate what you feel and what you do. You are a disciplined person. You are in control of your appetites and your emotions, not vice versa.
I guess this one fits as well. I try not to let people effect me, I decide that my day is going to be good and I will decide if I let someone ruin it for me. As much as something can fustrate or annoy me, I don’t let it overwhelm me and I get over it.